Caught in orbit

>Obese aunt, about 120kg
>She convinces her doctor to agree to bypass surgery
>Feel Happy for her
>2 years later
>Get excited call : “Neice, I’m now almost as thin as you now, come see me tomorrow”
>Drive 400 km to see her
>She hasn’t even lost 20 kg IN TWO FUCKING YEARS
>She’s still fat as fuck, I’m 110 lbs
>Watch her get a big bowl of panacotta for dessert, and eat it by herself
>Be overwhelmed by sadness and pity

Family Ties

Hey brah, just wannah share my experience.
>brother starts dating fatty
>Maccas everyday
>after a year i mention he is overweight
>he brushes me off for the next 6 months
>brother and his gf break up
>we start talking again
>he loses 50kgs
>same shit is happening right now with new gf
>too afraid to bring it up as I know what will happen.
I would rather have a fat selfish brother than no brother I guess..

Family Ties

>Go on a diet
>Cut from 235 pounds to 198. I gained so much weight due to my bulking up during powerlifting.
>Family is impressed, will also go on a diet.
>Call them up this week.
>They don't want to go on a diet anymore.

I just... sometimes, I don't know. I'm not disappointed, I just know that they judge themselves on their looks. I feel bad for them. Mind you, they aren't hugely overweight, or even moderately - they just wanted to lose several kilos.